Everyone once in my life felt an irresistible desire to something in itself to change. I, as a woman, I feel this desire almost every month, because the desire to be perfect, probably occurs in each of the fair sex.
Now I would like to talk about one of these desires - the desire to lose weight.
Recently, the Internet is full of articles that the girl should (not, should not, and obliged!) To be slim, because in today's world the fullness of now "is not in vogue." And, accordingly, the girls produced a psychological setting to "lose weight to the norms of the world." We are trying by any means to take the very form that is considered ideal. We sit down on exhausting diets, we buy tickets in sports, swimming pool, we record in dance clubs, only to "get better."
Psychological installation on weight reduction. Is this good effect on health? Does this affect privacy?
I will give some real examples.
Example №1. The girl (let's call her Anna) sought to be ideal for her boyfriend. Personally, I was familiar with it and I can say with confidence that the full, it never was. So ... a little tummy, and that's all. But the desire to lose weight overrode. And, being of sound mind, she sat on a diet, in order to throw 10 kilos up to the ideal weight, which for its growth showed some questionable plaque on the Internet. Very villages. Very sharp. I saw her only six months, approximately. Man did not know ... And no, not for the better, it changed. I took off. During the first month 10 kg, as wanted. For the second month in a further 10, as the body began to refuse to take enough food for normal healthy people. I think to say about the state of her health, which is still recovering luminaries of medicine there. As for the effect on her personal life. Boyfriend broke up with her when she fell ill in hospital with exhaustion. Voila!
Example №2. My neighbor in the rented apartment. It's an incredibly complex person. She is so obsessed with his desire that binds him absolutely everything that happens in her life. Gone guy? "That's because I'm fat." In the post gave the other girl? "This is because it is thinner than me." The witness at the wedding of a friend chose another? "This is because in the weight category do not fit." And so all the time. About six months ago she began to walk on some courses, which offer drink cocktail instead of the usual meal. We have the whole kitchen just littered with all sorts of these jars, for which you need to lay out each month few amount. You may ask: "Are there any results?" Yes. Minus 2 kg in six months. What commitment! What result! This masterpiece is simple! Yes, I scoff. For her insanity left, and the weight of all did not go away. I invite her to enroll in a gym, but this can not be done on this diet. Accordingly, she refuses. While health is not affected. A personal life is limited to work and home, for "the one I need until I'm fat." She, by the way, is currently 28 years.
Example №3. Private. My name is Julia, a rise of half a meter, my weight is 45 kg. About 4 years ago I was 12 kilograms denser. And the desire to lose weight and I was touched. Being a man of sports, I enrolled in the pool (a good thing, I will tell you). And I sat on the so-called "body-drying". Very removed from their diet salt, sugar, butter, but in general all the spices and additives to food. He has grown thin. In one month. I am boasting? No. Because the problem with the body I started relatively recently, when abruptly began to hurt the pancreas. Thank God that I was smart enough not to tie the pursuit of the ideal weight of a personal life. Always thought, "the main thing that was a good man", so the desire to lose weight had no effect on relations with the people.
Three examples. And all three are completely different. The desire to lose weight - this is certainly great, as long as it does not become the main your desire until the crosses your personal life. Diet and health? Well, here again, on time is not necessary. Who has what body.
The fair sex, appeal to you! Do not put their desire for an ideal above all else. Yes, we have to be beautiful. But man is not so much color external beauty as the beauty of the soul. Thanks to all.
P.S. By the way, an example №4. Valya. That is direct Valya! I never sit on a diet and felt that it forms large figure does not spoil. She married and happily married, had two heroes. And her husband doted, because our Valyusha so sweet, kind and positive person that you fall in love with it for its content and not the "wrapper"
Now I would like to talk about one of these desires - the desire to lose weight.
Recently, the Internet is full of articles that the girl should (not, should not, and obliged!) To be slim, because in today's world the fullness of now "is not in vogue." And, accordingly, the girls produced a psychological setting to "lose weight to the norms of the world." We are trying by any means to take the very form that is considered ideal. We sit down on exhausting diets, we buy tickets in sports, swimming pool, we record in dance clubs, only to "get better."
Psychological installation on weight reduction. Is this good effect on health? Does this affect privacy?
I will give some real examples.
Example №1. The girl (let's call her Anna) sought to be ideal for her boyfriend. Personally, I was familiar with it and I can say with confidence that the full, it never was. So ... a little tummy, and that's all. But the desire to lose weight overrode. And, being of sound mind, she sat on a diet, in order to throw 10 kilos up to the ideal weight, which for its growth showed some questionable plaque on the Internet. Very villages. Very sharp. I saw her only six months, approximately. Man did not know ... And no, not for the better, it changed. I took off. During the first month 10 kg, as wanted. For the second month in a further 10, as the body began to refuse to take enough food for normal healthy people. I think to say about the state of her health, which is still recovering luminaries of medicine there. As for the effect on her personal life. Boyfriend broke up with her when she fell ill in hospital with exhaustion. Voila!
Example №2. My neighbor in the rented apartment. It's an incredibly complex person. She is so obsessed with his desire that binds him absolutely everything that happens in her life. Gone guy? "That's because I'm fat." In the post gave the other girl? "This is because it is thinner than me." The witness at the wedding of a friend chose another? "This is because in the weight category do not fit." And so all the time. About six months ago she began to walk on some courses, which offer drink cocktail instead of the usual meal. We have the whole kitchen just littered with all sorts of these jars, for which you need to lay out each month few amount. You may ask: "Are there any results?" Yes. Minus 2 kg in six months. What commitment! What result! This masterpiece is simple! Yes, I scoff. For her insanity left, and the weight of all did not go away. I invite her to enroll in a gym, but this can not be done on this diet. Accordingly, she refuses. While health is not affected. A personal life is limited to work and home, for "the one I need until I'm fat." She, by the way, is currently 28 years.
Example №3. Private. My name is Julia, a rise of half a meter, my weight is 45 kg. About 4 years ago I was 12 kilograms denser. And the desire to lose weight and I was touched. Being a man of sports, I enrolled in the pool (a good thing, I will tell you). And I sat on the so-called "body-drying". Very removed from their diet salt, sugar, butter, but in general all the spices and additives to food. He has grown thin. In one month. I am boasting? No. Because the problem with the body I started relatively recently, when abruptly began to hurt the pancreas. Thank God that I was smart enough not to tie the pursuit of the ideal weight of a personal life. Always thought, "the main thing that was a good man", so the desire to lose weight had no effect on relations with the people.
Three examples. And all three are completely different. The desire to lose weight - this is certainly great, as long as it does not become the main your desire until the crosses your personal life. Diet and health? Well, here again, on time is not necessary. Who has what body.
The fair sex, appeal to you! Do not put their desire for an ideal above all else. Yes, we have to be beautiful. But man is not so much color external beauty as the beauty of the soul. Thanks to all.
P.S. By the way, an example №4. Valya. That is direct Valya! I never sit on a diet and felt that it forms large figure does not spoil. She married and happily married, had two heroes. And her husband doted, because our Valyusha so sweet, kind and positive person that you fall in love with it for its content and not the "wrapper"
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